Self love can be so many things. I know the term ‘self love’ is currently being overused by pretty much everyone, but I think that points more to its significance than anything else. We need to take care of ourselves first and foremost, and love ourselves first and foremost, because if we don’t do that we won’t be capable of doing it for anyone else.
And remember, if is never your responsibility to try to make someone else understand you. They will if they want to, otherwise, just be you in all of your wonderfulness.